*If any of you beg to differ, please give me tips!
So my kitchen sometimes looks like this...literally..
"I just don't feel like I can keep a handle on this house I know that most of it is because we never really had the house clean when I moved in but it's really starting to wear me down I want to have a clean house where people can come over and I want to cook and clean and do all those wife things and I know that you would help me if you could but we're both so busy and now I don't feel like I'm being a very good wife and I'm really starting to lose it and I don't want you to think that I can't handle a house let alone children someday and I just don't know what to do anymore!
So my amazing husband looks at me, smiles, tells me I'm a great wife, and asks me this very poignant question..."Did you just have that breakdown because you really are overwhelmed? Or was it because you just haven't cried in awhile?" I love him! Let's face it, I hadn't had a good cry in awhile, ladies, you know what I'm talkin about! So I dried my eyes and we ventured off to the big city to pick up this